Before you begin actually working on your relationship, you need to start by understanding relationships in general.You have probably heard couples say, "We knew the moment we saw each other across the room that this was THE ONE and we have been happily married for 45 years." Although we all wish we could experience love this way, the reality is that for most of us, relationships go through certain stages.
It is most advantageous to learn about problem solving, conflict management and communication during this stage.Related: 6 Cuddling Positions You MUST Try That Go WAY Beyond Just Spooning Although there are no typical couples, every relationship goes through intimacy stages. I want to marry him.""I can't believe we have so much in common.""He is great in bed.""I cannot to see him again.""Oh, I should eat something.And just like with grief, these stages do not always happen in this particular order. I'm going to vomit."Oh, the sweet, syrupy stage of infatuation. Hormones and logic rarely coincide, so we find ourselves doing things like checking email 12-24 times an hour, not eating, going to get our nails done at midnight, buying pajamas to match our bed sheets, and so on.Have you ever met a couple who seemed like they were going to stay together forever, but ended up breaking up a few years later?[Read: Top 20 reasons for divorce that most couples overlook] Perhaps, in all probability, they went wrong in one of these stages of the relationship.