Yet, in Dating, you see young men and women who are absolutely not mahram for one another in any way whatsoever, going way beyond this prohibition.
Not only are they talking to each other in a soft and flirtatious way, but they are right out expressing their ‘love’ (in reality, lust) for each other.“And come not near to unlawful sex. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him)” (al-Isra’ :32)“And of His signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you might reside with them, and has put love and mercy between you.
In Eastern cultures, on the other hand, dating is usually not accepted socially.
Many a fictitious love story has brought in thousands if not millions of sales… Dating. In young adult (YA) as well as adult romance novels. The same societies, however, frown upon and deem it illegal for single boys and girls under the age of 16 to engage in sexual activity, yet allow them to engage in parentally sanctioned dating.
Marriage is something that people should not always rush into.
It should be a well thought out decision that people would have to decide on because this can change their lives forever.
Despite a vast majority of terrorist claim to be Muslims, Islam itself is far from being the religion of hate and murder.
Rather, in Islam pre-marital relationships of any kind between members of the opposite sex are forbidden.
This is also the same with having an Islamic marriage, people should follow some marriage rules; Allah should always be placed at the center of the love and life of the couple to make the love lasting and blissful.
The above mentioned things are just some of the rules that should be followed by people who would like to get married.
This is because of the pressure on them to do everything according to the demands of their fiancé and his family, since in most Eastern cultures, the groom’s family is allowed to hold more sway and control in all wedding proceedings.
In young adult (YA) as well as adult romance novels. Very few single girls can muster up the courage to refuse to meet or talk to their fiancé after the engagement, even though their shyness might entice them to.
A young man is allowed to visit his to-be in-laws’ home, where his fiancé is allowed (if not coerced) by her parents to spend time with him alone.