READ MORE: Feeling your best for dating His first step to breaking out of the negativity rut is to make a pact to only speak positively about yourself and your love life in public – even when faced with that dreaded question, "So, why are you still single? Answer with your new positive attitude and say something like, "I love being in a relationship.The reason I'm single is I'm waiting to be inspired by the right person."It's not just dating you need to be positive about, you need to back yourself as well.If it feels great to think an affirmation, then it is right on target.Choosing a thought to put your attention on is generative.Website | Instagram | Twitter Listen below, download it here grab it from i Tunes. Also, I would be SO GRATEFUL if you took 2 minutes to leave a review.
As anyone can imagine, learning that you are newly positive can feel like taking a bullet.And in almost every instance, the most pressing and immediate concern after just finding out is about how HIV will affect a person’s dating life. When I first found out about my status, all of my romantic dreams instantly felt like dead ones. Besides a reoccurring doctor’s appointment every four months and a new pill to add to my pill box, my worth on the dating market remained the same.Of course, the first couple months were pretty shaky.After all, you don’t disclose all of the dirty details of your life on a first date, what makes your status any different. Those dirty details are the layers of who you are as a person and they are revealed as a relationship develops.Your status isn’t a part of your character; it is a matter of logistics.