It’s just that an INFJs happiness in a relationship doesn’t have to be broadcasted to everyone in the world. For example, my ideal date would be going to an art museum or gallery and going to a small (emphasis on small) café or restaurant to just casually chat and unwind. I’m not in to extremely loud, crowded venues for a first date.
And while forming quick friendships and extensive connections may be the goal for some extraverts, for INFJs, this is not the point at all.(Cue dramatic music.) INFJs prefer places that have smaller crowds and that have intriguing surroundings. If you’re not in, get out- INFJs are big on commitment. It takes true patience to truly get to know an INFJ.We tend to analyze people too, so don’t be surprised if we glance at every person in the room at least once. If you’re looking for a one night stand or some casual waste-of-time fling then it is best that you just leave. You won’t see all of the real me on the first date. It’s not necessarily that INFJs want to be mysterious or difficult.They are both adept at recognizing hidden meanings and symbolic references.Both of them value compassion, reflection, and intellectual and artistic pursuits.
The INFJ-INFJ relationship has 4 preference similarities and 0 preference differences.