Your divorce is over and you are ready to get out there and start dating again.
Only when the grownups started to leave did the children drag themselves, sluglike, behind us. Not long ago, I met a very attractive single mother of two at a dinner party. It was the way he slammed the action figures into each other, his upper lip curled in a sneer, that gave me pause.We were seated next to each other and by dessert, we were punctuating our stories with little touches: her hand on my forearm, mine on hers. Then the first of her two children, a boy of about ten, descended from an upstairs TV room. That and the adoring look his mother chose to bestow on him as he did.Chances are you will meet some wonderful – and not so wonderful – men during your journey. He admits to having several children with various women. (especially if there are young children involved.) Dating Red Flag #5 – Where Does He Live?Your responsibility is to know exactly what you want in a man and to keep your eyes open for potential red flags. He spends money frivolously and likes to flash wads of money. You have been dating for a month or two and he has yet to articulate what he does for a living. Questions to ask yourself: Were the mama’s pregnant at the same time? You just find out the man you have been dating is living with his mom or in his sister’s basement.
He drives an expensive, fast fancy car, wears a rolex and expensive jewelry, clothing and other accessories. He appears nice enough, but conveniently avoids answering personal questions about himself. Another scenario could be that he crashes with various friends or lives with a couple of women.